Has Dad Grown Up? | 2011

There was an anime festival today. And I'm an anime fan. Sort of. It could be that I "was" an anime fan. I still watch anime when I can, and I still sing along to the Voltes V opening theme song when I hear it. But I am no longer up to date with the newer anime types. Somehow, I'm not as interested with the lot of them, not as much as I used to anyway (I had my Gundam series complete before it even finished airing in the local cable channels).

I don't really think that I have outgrown that part of my life. I just shifted priorities, and anime is not on the top of my list anymore. Photography, for one, has taken over my list of hobbies. Cars have also taken a back seat since I lost my ride when we decided to settle in Singapore.


We have adapted to a new way of life in a short span of time. Sacrifices had to be made here and there, which is paving the way for a more grown up family. At least we try to be grown up. You see, children will not understand the things that we parents need to engage in at the back of the stage. We laugh, we live, we enjoy when we can. And when we must, we endure. These things don't matter to Jakjak. What matters to him is us being together and having fun. So all the pencil pushing, calculator bashing, blueprinting and planning happen while Jakjak is busy with something else.


Sometimes it does get a bit stressful. And when he's not careful, Jakjak sometimes gets a blunt of the chaos. Accidentally of course. But it's not something he does on a daily basis (nor is it something that I do everyday as well). It is a necessary something that you wish you didn't have to do. But it's there, a minor annoyance (like a lump of pork stuck between your teeth), buy it's there. All you can do really, is to kick it in the butt and take control. There's just no other way around it.